Deano’s answer to: “Should I believe my girlfriend when she tells me that she doesn’t want to have sex (even with a condom) because she’s worried about getting pregnant?”

The reason or excuse is irrelevant. You either choose to believe her, or not.

The result should also provide you with clear direction on advisable next steps in your relationship… If you cannot believe/accept her when it matters, then it's time for a new girlfriend, or a new you. Or, perhaps both?

Should I believe my girlfriend when she tells me that she doesn't want to have sex (even with a condom) because she's worried about getting pregnant?