Deano’s answer to: “How should a geeky immigrant find (and hit on) a local geeky woman?”

You have many advantages as a geek that will help you in dating in the US, especially in SFBA/SV… With a little patience, even the accent will become an extreme attractor if handled correctly.

I realize this is a bit over personalized/focused as an answer on Quora… In the more general case, immigrants should do more or less what local geeks do – find 1-2 easily communicable ways to show off one's particular geekiness, take small focused steps each day – tracking progress as you go, and treat the entire experience as a CBT exercise or other scientific study… That way, your particular missteps are more instructive and useful, and less demoralizing.

Anyway, offer stands, you're totally NaviDate member material, and once our local events get started (BADDEST, see my profile for more info), you'll definitely have a large field of female geeks to pick from at least once every couple weeks or so. 😉

How should a geeky immigrant find (and hit on) a local geeky woman?