Author: Deano

As John Morrow and Andy Lemke point out in the question comment section, there's a bit of a seeming paradox at play. Specifically, John says:

This is kind of like asking how you prevent being thirsty if you refuse to drink anything…

Which got me to thinking… If I didn't want to be thirsty, and I refused to drink liquids… I could set myself up an IV drip and stay hydrated that way.

There is a similar analogue to address sexual urges – you can medicate them away. This is pretty inadvisable stuff generally speaking, but for some, including repeat sex offenders, it's the only way to manage through the problem, at least until stability is achieved, and other parts of life are going well.

Take, for example, this Brazilian woman – she was so compulsively horny, that she got a selection of prescriptions from her doctor just to be able to get her jilling sessions down from 45 to 18 per day, allowing her to keep her job (at least, after a subsequent lawsuit that supported her right to masturbate in the office).

Perhaps the hypothetical single woman could simply find a combination of pills/patches/therapies which would dull certain senses, or suppress certain hormones enough to get by until finding a proper long term relationship… Which reminds me, sometimes birth control pills can have an "evening out" effect – either generally increasing or decreasing libido. Since the single female mentioned seemed disinterested in casual sex, it's not a far leap to think she may not be regularly taking birth control pills – and if not, that's certainly a great, fairly safe, and otherwise-useful[*] thing to try as a first step.

Anyway, as with any significant physiological issue that is disrupting one's routine, the best first step is to see an experienced physician, and get educated on options for testing, diagnosis and treatment.

[* Especially if she changes her mind on the casual sex thing suddenly…]

If a single woman doesn't want to masturbate or have casual sex, how does she relieve herself of her horniness?

You could generalize this question as "Is it better to pick from a large selection of unknown quantities, or from a smaller (or even singular) set of semi-known quantities?"

And the answer would still be "It Depends".

No doubt, women tend to have selection priority in dating throughout the Western World. But that also means they tend to have a bigger filtering issue based on their own wants from dating… Men tend to rate looks as more important in surveys, so if women are less concerned with appearance, it becomes much harder to know who would be the preferred date among a pool of men, without starting to, you know, actually date them.

Simply put, men seem to have more trouble getting dates, and women struggle with finding the right date. Which is the preferable predicament is going to be a matter of personal preference, based on one's inherent and developed levels of patience and persistence.

Is it true that women are better off in the dating marketplace because they have their pick of men?

The reason or excuse is irrelevant. You either choose to believe her, or not.

The result should also provide you with clear direction on advisable next steps in your relationship… If you cannot believe/accept her when it matters, then it's time for a new girlfriend, or a new you. Or, perhaps both?

Should I believe my girlfriend when she tells me that she doesn't want to have sex (even with a condom) because she's worried about getting pregnant?

Your question is needlessly detailed – it's a common problem for women, that men don't cut their nails, period.

It's unattractive to see a guy show up for a date with dirty nails, or jagged bitten nails. One of the easiest ways most men can boost their attractiveness, in fact, is to properly care for their nails… Not just clipping them, but also filing (not that difficult or time consuming), or even getting the occasional manicure.

It's not a sign of being a hipster, or a threat to your sexuality, guys. Just a really easy way to emulate one of the many practices women use to look good… You get the same benefits, you understand what women go through a little better (go ahead, compliment her nails if they look good, it's the little things), and yes, fewer complaints during hand sex… Though I'd still recommend going the glove/lube route myself, for a variety of reasons.

Is it a common problem for women that men don't cut their nails before penetrating a woman's vagina with their fingers?

Given the form factor of most womens' underwear, any penis over about 5" in length would be a little "awkwardly prominent" in most situations, assuming the woman was wearing pants, shorts, or other form-fitting outerwear.

Apart from fashion considerations, many men might also feel threatened if the last bastion of masculinity, the actual physical penis, were somehow co-opted by the fairer sex.

How big is too big for women when it comes to penises?